Friday, October 29, 2010
Spending more time with loved ones
We all love to spend most of our time with the person we love. It can be someone's from our family, friends, or boyfriend and girlfriend. The best time ever in my life, when I spend time with my family. I feel warm and there are no problems in my live. I love to be very close to them and enjoy their companies as much as I can. When I travel some where, I feel sick and I can't stay away more than a week. Time with family is priceless, I don't think that anyone's else can give love more than my family. Everybody are different. Some people like to spend their times with friends or boy/girlfriends. So, everyone's has his own way to find his joy and well-being. Anyway, spending a little time with my family, can show them how I care about them and how I love them.
Sacrifice and sharing
Mildred said that every sacrifice has a fruitful reward, every failure has a second chance....We only have to be strong by God's grace to persevere in the tests of life.In order to makes someone's happy in his lives, you have to sacrifice for him. I mean sacrificing for love has big meaning. If we have a real love in our life, we have to sacrifice to makes this love stronger and longer. We have to sacrifice our life ,to makes our children better than us.Sharing is giving what you have to others. I like when Lany said if there is something better than sharing with others the best of what you have, it is sharing with others the best of who you are. If we share and give people who doesn't have their lives needs, we will be the happiest people in the earth. Sharing is more than to give to others, but it is your feeling when you give. I like to share with others because that makes me feel better. Anyway, sharing and sacrificing are very unique. If someone has both in his personality, he will be a happy person and feel claim in his life.
Real love vs. The Ideal
Real love is very rare at this time. It is not easy to find someone and you can have a real love together. In my life experience, we can have a real love one's in our life or maybe non. Some people lives their whole lives looking for a real love,but they never find it. I think that I never have in my life before a really serious relationship or real love. The ideal is what we what to be. I mean that we all have created an ideal self, the person we want to be. The ideal is something really disappear in our lives. Everyday we are forced to choose between the tree of the knowledge of good and evil and the tree of life.so, the reality is totally different because we always have the wrong choice. In my own experience, I see most of my choices are wrong because I choose what's makes me feel good not what's right. Anyway, the truth is our generation are suffering a lot because we can't have a real love and we can't understand the ideal.
Thursday, October 21, 2010
The Pursuit of Happiness: Briggs-Myers Test
The Pursuit of Happiness: Briggs-Myers Test: "http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp"
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
Happiness at work
Happiness at work is one of the most important thing in everyone life. Because a lot of people works, and they don't like what they do, and at the same time they feel unhappy. Work is everything in our life. Without work we can't pay our bills, we can't live normal life, and we can't enjoy our life. So, work is very impotent in everyone life. In order to be happy in your job, you have to like what you do, to feel that you can give all your effort to be happy. We have to begin by asking some questions to ourselves. We challenge our assumptions, our conventional ways of thinking about what can be possible in our lives. We need to know that if we are happy at work or not. And, how we can be happier? How can I change my job, and start looking for something can makes me happy. I like when Tal Ben-Shaher said in his book "the pursuit of happiness," "the employee should feel that her work has a significant impact on others."(99). That is really will develop a lot in any work field.
Happiness at work is a little bit complicated. We can't feel happy all the time at work, because of course there are sometimes feel that we doing routine. But we are wrong because we have to create extra work to do, to get rid of this feeling. All that can be easy if we like our job. I like to add part from the psychologist Abraham Maslow when he wrote something about happiness at work, he said:" the most beautiful fate,the most wonderful good fortune that can happen to any human being, is to be paid for doing that which he passionately loves to do."(101). So, that is we have to love what we do,in order to be happy. Other wise we will be have a miserable time during our work times. I like to talk about my own experience. I love my work because I feel myself improving in my field. Everyday when I wake up in the morning,I want to be at my work as soon as possible.because that is part from my joy, and happiness in
my life.
Although happiness is not merely contingent on what we do or where we are but on what we choose to perceive. There are a lot of people who are unhappy at work, but they are very happy in other things. For example, an unhappy business man may learn to derive meaning and pleasure from his business if he chooses to focus on those aspects that are personally meaningful and pleasurable.Also, there are some people not only unhappy in their work, but they are unhappy in relationship,or in life general. Those make the possibility of finding happiness extremely difficult.
In the end, I would like to say that everyone can find a job or a career in where he/she be satisfied.but we can usually do better. In my opinion we can find what we like, if we give all our effort to be happy in our job. So, I like to encourage everybody to do his/her best to be happy in his/her work.
Happiness at work is a little bit complicated. We can't feel happy all the time at work, because of course there are sometimes feel that we doing routine. But we are wrong because we have to create extra work to do, to get rid of this feeling. All that can be easy if we like our job. I like to add part from the psychologist Abraham Maslow when he wrote something about happiness at work, he said:" the most beautiful fate,the most wonderful good fortune that can happen to any human being, is to be paid for doing that which he passionately loves to do."(101). So, that is we have to love what we do,in order to be happy. Other wise we will be have a miserable time during our work times. I like to talk about my own experience. I love my work because I feel myself improving in my field. Everyday when I wake up in the morning,I want to be at my work as soon as possible.because that is part from my joy, and happiness in
my life.
Although happiness is not merely contingent on what we do or where we are but on what we choose to perceive. There are a lot of people who are unhappy at work, but they are very happy in other things. For example, an unhappy business man may learn to derive meaning and pleasure from his business if he chooses to focus on those aspects that are personally meaningful and pleasurable.Also, there are some people not only unhappy in their work, but they are unhappy in relationship,or in life general. Those make the possibility of finding happiness extremely difficult.
In the end, I would like to say that everyone can find a job or a career in where he/she be satisfied.but we can usually do better. In my opinion we can find what we like, if we give all our effort to be happy in our job. So, I like to encourage everybody to do his/her best to be happy in his/her work.
Sunday, October 10, 2010
Blog # 3
The basic thing is that everyone wants happiness, no one wants suffering.Happiness in Education is very important in everyone life because if we suffer during our school time, we will feel sick and tired for the rest of our life.We have to first like what we study, In order to feel happy in our school time. Happiness manly comes from our own attitude, rather than from external factors. I have a few things that makes me happy in school, and helps me to focus more on my subjects. First, the main important step is to do meditation every day during school time very early in the morning.Second, I like to do sports at least three times a week, to keeps me in good shape. the last, but not the least, organizing my time for everything, that is helps me to gives time for everything i want to do. And that is the best way to concentrate in my school. All these things makes me the happiest person in my Education.
First, the main important step to makes me happy in my school is meditation. Every day before going to school, I have to meditate at least for fifteen minute. This little time helps me to focus on my school for the whole day. Also,makes me rest and release all the stress. Meditation is help me to achieve peace in myself, and be passion. Meditation is seeking more serenity and calm in my life. I’m still learning to do better, using meditation as a guide on my journey. it’s also help me to understand my own mind. I can learn how to transform my mind from negative to positive, from disturbed to peaceful, from unhappy to happy. Anyway, I would like to encourage every one to have at least ten minute for meditation, to see how helpful and can change a lot of things in every one personalty. Also, Matthieu Ricard who took about meditation, and who'' the happiest man in the world,'' Matthieu Ricard balances his buddhist contemplation of happiness. So, that was a big example how important to meditation in our life.
Second, sports are the second level or step in my goal to be happy in my Education. Actually, I can’t live without going to the gym at least three times a week. Gym helps me to be active for the whole day during school. And makes me very energetic. There is no gain, If there is no pain. I mean if we would like to achieve something in our life, we have to work hard for it. Going to the gym is not only to be in good shape, is helps to release stress. Physical exercises in general are needed to lead a peaceful, happy and healthy life. So having a healthy life make me a happy person, and make me concentrate in my school to achieve my target.
Last, but not the least, organizing my time that make me so happy. time management is one of the most important study skills that I need to success in my school, and at the same time make me happy. It’s impossible to remember everything i need to do in my head. So, I need a system to keep track of all my deadlines and obligations. so, I’m always have a calender to remember all the important things I have to do. the way I study is not just anytime, there are times for everything that help me to manage all the important things I need to do. The more I manage my time, the easier to be organized and doing more stuff in the spare time, if i have.
In the conclusion, happiness in Education fun, joy, and good memory. The best time we have in our life, is our school time. Everyone has a good memory to remember. And everyone has a different ways to be happy in his/her Education. So, we have to invest every minute during our school time because these are the best time ever in our life. Anyway, these were my best tasks to achieve my goals. And to be happy and successful in my life.
WorksCited
Robinson, Ken. ‘’Do Schools Kill Creativity?.’’TED 2006, Filmed Feb. 2006, Posted June 2006 http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/eng/ken_robinson_says_schools_kill_creativity.html
WorksCited
Robinson, Ken. ‘’Do Schools Kill Creativity?.’’TED 2006, Filmed Feb. 2006, Posted June 2006 http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/eng/ken_robinson_says_schools_kill_creativity.html
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
Happiness in Education
Happiness in Education is the most important part in our lives. We always have different things make us happy, but happiness in education is totally different than anything else. Many things can make us happy for a little period of time, but not for long term. Education is not only finishing a High school, or even college. Education is more than studying, and be at any school. In order to understand what's mean education, we have first love to study, and love to read because without both, we will fail at school. Anyway, i would like to talk about my own experience at school, and how education became part of my happiness.
First, when i was young, i didn't like to be at school because i spent the whole day there, and i felt very tired to be studying many subjects during the study session. Anyway, my parents tried to encourage me to like school, but i was really do like to study. So, during school session i found myself behind my friends.And, i started to feel bad about myself. I started to focus on my subjects especially reading, and trying to understand what's the main idea of this subject. I started to love the school, and i became the more successful student at my school, and i understood what's really mean happiness in education.
Second, during college time after i finished the High school, i went back in my country to study Accounting. I was very excited in the beginning, but after i graduated from college, i realized that not what I'm really looking for, or to be working in my future. So, after really long time struggling to know what i like to do, finally i found myself . I found that I'm very good in Biology, and Chemistry. So, i deiced to study something related with what i like. I found that Physical Therapy is the best study for me. I started at LaGuardia college since 2009, and I'm really enjoying studying here because i understood form beginning the meaning of happiness in education.
In the end, i would like to encourage everyone who doesn't like school or studying, to give all his/her effort to be successful at school.Because, without education we will feel bad about ourselves, and not feeling happy as we have an education.Although we can be happy without education, but with education we can be more happier than anybody else. The more we study, the more we have knowledge, and we will be able to understand everything in our life. So, happiness in Education is not only school, It is the source of our future in life.Because the more we know, the more we will have a wealthy knowledge.
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