The relationship between parents and their children is not like any relationship. In order to understand this relationship, we have to get a lot of knowledge and data to help us. Parents always think that the way they treat their kids is the right way, and they never give any chance for their kids to expresses their feelings. Why people have children? To make them suffer or to make them straggle in their lives. Most people assume that having children will make them happier. Yet a lot of experiment shows that parents are not happier than their childless peers, and many cases are less so. We need a lot of experience to know how to handle our kids, and to understand each others. Parents need to know how to love and sacrifice, and their children as well. parents need to learn what are the meaning of sharing and love, and their kids as well. Also, parents need to understand the meaning and pleasure in love to their children. All these steps will help both to understand each others and have a peaceful life.
Parents need to know how to love and sacrifice for their children. A few generations ago, people were not stopping to contemplate whether having a child would make them happy. And we are lucky today because we have choices about these matters. But the percentage of choices- whether to have kids, when,how many-may be one of the reason parents are less happy.some studies found that every successive generation was more put out by having them than the last-our current one most of all. Even more surprisingly, they found that parents’ dissatisfaction only grew the more money they had, even though they had the purchasing power to buy more child care. “And my hypothesis about why this is, in both cases, is the same.” says Twenge (63). Parents need to sacrifice by giving their kids all the tension, and time to understand them more. And to makes them happier because kids are the source of the joy. As Gilbert said after he finally got around having a child:”They are a huge source of joy, but they turn every other source of joy to shit.” (63). Also, children need to sacrifice for their parents especially when they get older. Parents at this time needs their children helps. So, they have to works together to makes balance and be happier.
Parents need to learn what are the meaning of sharing and love. Sharing is not only share in conversation or share in thinking. Sharing is more than these things, Is it sharing in feeling, emotion, and thoughts. Young parents, especially first- times, may get upset when they see that their two -years-old wants to keep his toys to himself. at which age does sharing become a socially appropriate behavior and how can you encourage your children to share? we should teach our kids that sharing even if they very young is very important, and the only way to makes them understand that is by learning how to share. Try to play with them and helps them sharing their toys with another kids. Also, children should share with their parents there feeling, and the life events because that will helps both to understand each others and be well-being. Love and sharing are very helpful for successful life. If some one live away from people, he will never enjoy his life. And he will never find a meaning for life because love is coming from many different methods and one of them is sharing. We need to understand how to share with others to have a wonderful life and better future, and successful company. In conclusion, sharing with others is the root for happiness and the best way to makes our kids have compassion in their lives.
Parents need to understand the meaning of pleasure and love. they need to teach their kids how to love others and be friendly with every one. Pleasure is the well satisfy, any one's want to have a pleasure with his children. And understand each others to makes their lives much better. Parents need to learn how to makes their kids very satisfy and give them all the efforts to succeed in their lives. Also, children need to helps their parents how to makes fully satisfy. As lord Byron said:” Without a meaningful foundation to the relationship that goes beyond immediate gratification, it is impossible to sustain happiness.” (116). parents and children have to work together to make it happen, and to feels pleasure and happy.
In conclusion, the mean important thing in any relationship is to have love and passion. Having people about whom we care and who care about us to share our lives with-to share the events and thoughts and feelings in our lives-intensifies our experience of meaning, consoles us in our pain, deepens our sense of delight in the world. Lord Byron said. (111). I encourage every child to learn how to behave with his parents, to live in better life and become more well -being.
