Real love vs. The Ideal

Real love is very rare at this time. It is not easy to find someone and you can have a real love together. In my life experience, we can have a real love one's in our life or maybe non. Some people lives their whole lives looking for a real love,but they never find it. I think that I never have in my life before a really serious relationship or real love. The ideal is what we what to be. I mean that we all have created an ideal self, the person we want to be. The ideal is something really disappear in our lives. Everyday we are forced to choose between the tree of the knowledge of good and evil and the tree of life.so, the reality is totally different because we always have the wrong choice. In my own experience, I see most of my choices are wrong because I choose what's makes me feel good not what's right. Anyway, the truth is our generation are suffering a lot because we can't have a real love and we can't understand the ideal.